Morris Chestnut on Love, Longevity & the Unspoken Rules of His 30-Year Marriage to Pam Byse
Morris Chestnut on Love, Longevity & the Unspoken Rules of His 30-Year Marriage to Pam Byse
By
Photo credit: morrischestnutofficial/Instagram
During an appearance on CBS Mornings, Hollywood actor Morris Chestnut opened up about his marriage to his wife, Mary Pam Byse, who he’s been with for more than 30 years.
When asked about the secret to a long, successful, and abundant marriage, Morris admitted there isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer but shared what has worked for them:
You know what, I wish I knew the answer to that ’cause then I’d sell it, but I think for us, we are just very fortunate to be, you know, two good people. One of the main things, we have an ultimate respect for each other, even when we get into…you know, you are with someone for a long time, you kind of take them for granted, you can get very angry and get very nasty during fights. It happens, right? But there are times we just don’t hit below the belt. We never say anything we can’t take back, and we’ve just been very blessed to grow together.
Laju Iren Breaks Down Common Mistakes Good Girls Make in Relationships
“Saviour syndrome,” “it must work syndrome”—these, according to Laju Iren, are patterns many good girls unknowingly fall into in relationships. In her latest video, Laju sheds light on these common mistakes, explaining why it’s crucial to recognise them.
She talks about how the “saviour syndrome” leads some girls to stay in situations that aren’t right, simply to “fix” someone else. Here’s a nugget from her words: “You don’t have to date someone to change them. If they really want to change, they can do it without dating you.”
She also tackles the “it must work” mindset, where good girls try to make a relationship work just to please others—whether it’s parents, friends, or society. Laju advises against being a people-pleaser. Instead, she encourages to focus on pleasing God and trusting His guidance.
https://bellanaija. Com/Morris Chestnut on Love, Longevity & the Unspoken Rules of His 30-Year Marriage to Pam Byse/