Man Explains Why He Stopped Ladies Sleeping Over At His Place

He met this lady online and things moved very fast. She opted to do a sleepover and he agreed, he never saw anything bad in it.

By 9pm she arrived, very pretty and she looked so much better in person than in pictures. She wore this black lipstick and had this black eyeliner around her eyes (that thing called tiro). It made her look a little too bold aura to her.

Her phone and bag was on the table and they had been talking to the whole time. When it was 11pm he stated sleeping. Before this the room lights were off so everywhere was dark. He woke up from sleep to find this girl staring at him. Remember the black lipstick and the eyeliner?
The room was dark, her face was dark, and all he could see was her eyes and a little bit of her face and feel his skin crawl maybe out of fear.

She played it off with a smile and said, “you look very handsome” and then she lay down. He left to the bathroom and came back to the room. He checked the time and it was 1am.
Remember she wasn’t pressing her phone or anything. Her phone was on the table. You were staring at someone for that long?

He came back to the room, switched off the lights and slept off again. He woke up again around 3am and she was staring at him. It wasn’t a friendly stare at all. He asked her, “why are you not asleep?”. She turned quietly without saying a word and lay down to sleep. He couldn’t sleep anymore because this whole thing was way too strange.

It was 6am and he expected her to leave quite early but she said, “allow me to make you something to eat.”. He said, “no I’m fine”. What seemed very casual turned into a full blown argument and all he kept asking himself was, “why do you want me to eat this food so badly”.

After so much arguments, and cancelling multiple booked rides, she left by 11am. After this, he tried calling her number and it was switched off. Her WhatsApp messages weren’t going through. He kept trying to call that line for up to a year before he finally deleted it. This event made decide never to allow a lady spend the night at his place again.